This post is all about “finding my identity in Christ” — a journey EVERY Christian woman needs to take so you can find the freedom Christ intended for you!

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Finding my identity in Christ has been quite the journey…

It’s easy to lose yourself and have an identity crisis when society dictates how you should look…

You find yourself constantly comparing yourself to fake digital identities or social media images — or letting others’ opinions of you make you…

insecure and ashamed of yourself
feel inadequate
feel like you’re not good enough
quietly insult yourself
self-deprecate
constantly seek approval

— all simply because of how you perceive yourself.

YOU ARE NOT YOUR SIZE or YOUR LOOKS. You’re so much more!

Your true identity and worth come from being God’s daughter — and you are loved just as you are.

I pray you read through this post and that through the power of the Holy Spirit, you can internalize just how special you truly are.

My beautiful friend, because I know how life-changing finding my identity in Christ has been — I want the same for you.

If you want to experience a new life — a life of freedom in standing firmly in your identity in Christ — read on…

It’s not too late because if I — a woman in her 50s — was able to discover my identity in Christ, so can you.

Today, we’ll go over why it’s important to know my identity in Christ, how to live your identity in Christ, and SO much more!

What Does My Identity in Christ Mean?

WHAT'S INSIDE show

Your identity in Christ is super powerful and transformative!

It’s literally like being given a new lens to see yourself — not as the world (or you) sees you — but through God’s eyes.

The good news is…

In Christ, your personal identity goes beyond your job title, your social status, marital status, personality traits, spiritual gifts, good works, or even your personal achievements…

When we give our lives to Jesus, we’re recognized as children of God. This means you are loved more than you think, valued beyond measure, and 100% forgiven!

So, it comes down to WHOSE you are — a masterpiece of a woman designed by your loving Creator and heavenly Father.

(insert mic drop)

(I could literally end the post here — but I won’t because there’s SO much more of God’s unconditional love you need to read!)

Meditate on these truths founded on God’s word…

My identity in Christ is not about what I’ve done or haven’t done — it’s about what Jesus did for me on the cross. I’m a new creation through grace.
My identity in Christ provides a foundation of unshakable self-worth and purpose.
My identity in Christ impacts how I live. I will begin to see life through the filter of God’s love and truth.
My identity in Christ will change my relationships, guiding me to act with love, kindness, and forgiveness – echoing Jesus’ actions.
My identity in Christ also influences how I handle challenges.
Knowing I’m a child of God gives me strength and hope during tough times.
My identity in Christ is a journey of growth. It’s a daily process of understanding more deeply what it means to be a follower of Jesus Christ — by growing in a deep personal relationship with Him.

What Does the Bible Say About Knowing Your Identity in Christ?

Oh my goodness, the Bible has A LOT to say about our identity in Christ.

It’s simply mind-blowing and so uplifting! Especially for times when you feel lost or unsure about yourself.

The Bible calls out that you’re God’s special possession — can you believe that?

You’re not just some random face in the crowd — you are chosen people, part of a holy nation, a royal priesthood. 1 Peter 2:9

(This isn’t like any personality test result — it’s your core identity crafted by God Himself!)

You’re the righteousness of God. 2 Corinthians 5:21

Not because of anything you’ve done but because Jesus made it possible. You’re not defined by your past, your mistakes, or the enemy’s lies that try to pull you and keep you down.

Nope.

In Christ, you’re a new person, living in the freedom of God’s great love and forgiveness.

We have this amazing invitation to be sons and daughters of God. John 1:12

To embrace the eternal life He offers and to live our true selves – our best lives in the heavenly places with Christ. Ephesians 2:6

And guess what?

This identity gives us the courage to take risks, make good decisions, and grow — even if it’s slow growth. Because we’re all about reflecting the glory of God and living in the praise of His glorious grace 🙌🏼.

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Have you ever felt like you don’t belong?

Well, the Bible says we’re fellow citizens with the saints, part of God’s family. Ephesians 2:19

It’s like God is saying, “You’re my little girl, and you’ve got a special place in my heart.”

So, let’s keep this in our hearts: Your identity in Christ is about being who God created you to be. It’s the first step to living out your full potential — in every stage of life.

What Is My Identity in Christ According to Ephesians?

(All of the Scriptures on my identity in Christ are taken from the NIV unless otherwise noted.)

You know when you read something and you’re like — “Oh wow, I’ve never understood it like that before…”

That’s how I feel about Ephesians. When I read it this time around, it was like having a lightbulb moment of my identity in Christ.

Take a look at these Bible verses filled with God’s truth and promises…

I AM BLESSED

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ. Ephesians 1:3

I AM CHOSEN

For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. Ephesians 1:4

I AM HOLY

For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. Ephesians 1:4

I AM BLAMELESS

For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. Ephesians 1:4

I AM LOVED

In love he predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will. Ephesians 1:5

I AM ADOPTED

In love he predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will. Ephesians 1:5

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I AM REDEEMED

In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace. Ephesians 1:7

I AM FORGIVEN

In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace. Ephesians 1:7

I AM AN HEIR

Furthermore, because we are united with Christ, we have received an inheritance from God. Ephesians 1:11 NLT

I AM MARKED

And you also were included in Christ when you heard the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation. When you believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit. Ephesians 1:13

I AM CALLED

I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in his holy people. Ephesians 1:18

I AM GOD’S MASTERPIECE

For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago. Ephesians 2:10 NLT

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How Do You Live Your Identity in Christ?

Embracing your identity in Christ is like finding your favorite cozy sweater — it’s comforting, fits just right, and makes you feel warm and cozy.

It’s not about being perfect or reaching an impossible standard — it’s about knowing who you are because of Whose you are.

If you were to walk away with just one truth — remember this: your core identity is based on the fact that you’re made in the very own image of God.

I’ll leave you with some next steps…

Next Steps…

Start each day by reminding yourself…

“I am chosen, loved, and a masterpiece.” When you look in the mirror, see yourself through His lens. That little girl inside you, who might feel inadequate or insecure — is beautifully crafted and an essential part of the body of Christ.

When those familiar voices of self-critique or the craving for others’ approval sneak in…

Pause and take a moment to recall your true identity. You’re not defined by social media validation or the opinions of others. You’re a precious daughter of the King, uniquely marked for a Godly purpose.

Celebrate the different gifts He’s blessed you with…

Use them boldly, sister! You’re perfectly equipped to make a meaningful impact in your corner of the world. Every choice, every gesture of love, every step forward — it’s all part of your metamorphic journey in Christ.

And remember, this identity isn’t just a label — it’s a lifestyle…

It means choosing to believe and trust God’s promises over the enemy’s lies — even on (especially on) tough days. When you feel lost, dive into Bible study or just talk to Him. He’s ALWAYS listening — He says so in Romans 8:38-39

And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 8:38-39

Standing firmly in and knowing my identity in Christ is the best gift I’ve received from the Gift Himself.

After 5 decades of living with a distorted body image, I went from…

not thinking much of myself
feeling unloved
feeling anxious
self-sabotaging
feeling like a failure
seeking approval from men
bo dy checking
constant dieting or neglecting my body
emotional eating
feeling embarrassed
comparing myself to others
feeling insecure
feeling inadequate
feeling unworthy

…to finding comfort at the throne of grace — treating myself with compassion, empathy, kindness, grace, and love — even on bad body image days.

Some days, I don’t like myself, and that’s ok — because today, I accept myself for Whose I am and am humbly unapologetic about it! Wow, how my life has changed, and I am forever grateful to the lover of my soul! 🙌

I hope and pray the same for you, my beautiful friend.

So, let these words renew your mind. Go out there and let your light shine. Live out your role in the body of Christ and your heavenly citizenship with joy and confidence.

The people around you need what you uniquely bring to the table.
You are loved, you are important, and your story is significant.
Live out your authentic self — boldly and unashamedly — in the endless love and abounding grace of Christ.

You’ve got this!

This post was about sharing my transformative journey to finding my identity in Christ. I hope that you will hop on this wonderful and liberating journey, too.

My prayer for you is that my decades of experience with — an all-consuming battle with distorted body image — and self-worth struggles — and how God has radically worked on my heart will bless and inspire you!

You’re Invited…

You have an open invitation to binge on all of my posts — written with Holy Spirit-inspired words and filled with love just for you — my beautiful friend.

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Thank you for joining me on this journey. You are loved, precious, and wonderfully made.

Posted By: Wanda · In: Mindset