This post is all about 5 ways to deepen your relationship with God. As a Christian woman struggling with body image, strengthening your relationship with God is the #1 most important thing you can do to overcome your body image issues.
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When you think about improving your overall wellness and overcoming negative body image, Iām pretty sure ā5 ways to deepen your relationship with Godā isnāt the first thing that comes to mind, right?
Hereās the thingā¦
Your Christian life (and just life in general) thrives when you focus on building your relationship with God.
When your ācup is fullā ā it spills into every aspect of your daily life.
And that is why ā whether youāre craving spiritual growth or your spiritual life is a bit dry (no judgment in Christ Jesus ā itās all grace)ā¦
You will benefit from these 5 ways to deepen your relationship with God. Theyāre powerful ways to help you battle lifeās great and not-so-great moments.
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5 Ways to Deepen Your Relationship with God
Can I be real with you?
I donāt know ā maybe itās just meā¦
But itās the difficult times that awaken my desire to have a closer relationship with our Heavenly Father.
Can you relate?
As a Christian, you know that no matter how much you talk to your bestie about it, the one thing you TRULY need is to go to the throne of graceā¦
So you goā¦
And when you finally get past that, āLord, where are you? Iām so ___________ (fill in the blank) that I donāt feel your presenceā¦āĀ
To that place where youāre delighting in Godās presence ā where you can almost feel the weight of your burdens lift away.
(You know that feeling, right?!)
Itās in those moments ā when you seek Godās face (even if you feel like the Holy Spirit has left the building š) ā that you are refined and polishedā¦
So letās jump right into the 5 ways to deepen your relationship with Godā¦
1. Discover Godās Heart ā Immerse in Godās Word
You know how people say ā donāt judge a book by its cover?
Wellā¦
The same goes for Scripture.
Iāve always struggled with reading and comprehension. So reading the Bible was intimidating because I didnāt understand it!
But thank you, Jesus, that today there are so many different versions. My personal favorite is The Passion Translation.
Its modern language makes it super easy to understand. TPT reads like a beautifully written novel while maintaining accuracy. It also has a ton of in-depth study notes and commentary.
I digressā¦
The only way youāll REALLY get to discover Godās love, grace, and mercy is to dedicate time to reading the beautiful love story that is the Bible.
(Yes, Christian books are great too ā but reading your Bible is where youāll get the good stuff firsthand!)
Jesus has prepared the table for you (Psalm 23:5)ā¦
I love how the Lover of your soul invites you to āsit at the table.ā
When you sit at the table, you assimilate Him.
To assimilate means to absorb and to understand Godās goodness ā you discover Godās loveā¦
His lavish and never-ending love.
Here are practical ways to connect with God by immersing in Scriptureā¦
Dive into Daily Devotion
- Just like you need food every day ā Jesus is the Bread of Life ā you need His sustenance.Ā
- Make time each day to engage with the Bible.
- Ask God to let the verses renew your mind āĀ shape your thoughts and actions.
Reflect and Apply
- Pause to reflect on how the Scriptures relate to your life.
- Apply the wisdom you gain from the Bible to navigate your wellness and body image challenges.
Share Insights
- āEach One Teach Oneā
- Discuss what youāve learned with a family member, a small group of friends, or in your Bible study group.
- Talking about the things youāve discovered in the Bible deepens your understanding and strengthens your faith.
Try to memorize one verse per week!
Spending time in Godās Word is more than just reading words on a page ā itās where Godās voice comes aliveā¦ After all, it is the āliving Word of God.ā
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2. Connect Through Conversation ā Talk to God Daily
Praying is as simple as having a conversation with God, my beautiful friend.
A sincere and heartfelt prayer in your daily routine is a powerful way to strengthen your relationship with God.
Hereās a closer look at great ways to experience a deeper relationship through daily prayerā¦
Quiet Time
- Establish a dedicated time each day for prayer.
- Consistency builds a rhythm that will improve your relationship with God.
Just Be YOU
- Praying doesnāt have to be elaborate or eloquent.
- Just talk to Him ā express your thoughts, feelings, and concerns openly ā even your body image and wellness concerns.
- He knows you best, so let your prayers be a genuine reflection of yourself.
Practice Gratitude
- Infuse gratitude into your prayers.
- Appreciate Godās many blessings and tell Him how grateful you are for all the amazing things that your body can do.
- A prayer of gratitude glorifies God.
Share Every Aspect of Life
- Donāt limit your conversations to specific topics.
- God wants to be involved with you ā include God in all aspects of your life. Invite Him into the simple things, joyful times, challenges, and decision-making.
Connecting with God on a daily basis transforms prayer from a religious ritual to an open and direct line with your Creator. You also get to connect with God on a more intimate level and enjoy a personal relationship with Him.
3. Walk in His Ways ā Practice Obedience
Being obedient isnāt going to make God love you more or less ā we obey as an act of gratitude and as an act of worship for our salvation through faith in Jesus Christ.
Hereās what practicing obedience as an act of gratitude and worship looks likeā¦
Prioritize Spiritual Disciplines
- Include things like prayer, Christian meditation, and Bible reading on your to-do list.
- Consistently practicing these disciplines will improve obedience and strengthen your connection with God.
Seek Guidance in Decision-Making
- Seek Godās guidance before you make decisions (even with something seemingly simple, like your wellness goals).
- Trusting in His wisdom and guidance demonstrates obedience to His perfect plan.
Serve Others Selflessly
- Show Christās love by being kind and supporting others without expecting anything in return (even when ā especially when ā you feel yucky about yourself).
- Serving others is actually a command: Love the Lord your God and love others as you love yourselfā¦
Reflect on Your Daily Choices
- Be intentional about checking in with yourself on a daily basis. Reflect on your daily choices and actions throughout the day.
- Evaluate whether your choices align with Godās teachings. If they donāt, make adjustments that align with Godās will and with your love for Him.
By making a conscious effort to obey God in your daily life, you can experience a more meaningful relationship with Him.
4. Diffuse His Love ā Serve Others Wholeheartedly
Extending Godās love to the world through acts of kindness is a powerful way to find satisfaction and imitate His compassionate nature.
Hereās how you can wholeheartedly serve othersā¦
Identify Opportunities to Serve
- Be attentive to the needs of those around you.
- Identify opportunities, both big and small, to lend a helping hand.
Engage in Random Acts of Kindness
- Small gestures have the power to cheer up someoneās day and demonstrate Godās love.
- Your service and good deeds become a reflection of His compassion and might inspire others to experience His love.
When you serve others wholeheartedly, you make a positive impact on those around you ā and you demonstrate His love in practical ways.Ā
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5. Value His Blessings ā Live Gratefully
Nurturing a heart of gratitude for Godās abundant blessings is a life-changing practice.Ā
Hereās how you can embrace a lifestyle that celebrates and values His blessingsā¦
Start and End Your Day with Thanks
- Take a moment to express gratitude at the beginning and end of each day.
- Reflect on all the blessings youāve received, and thank God for His goodness.
Keep a Gratitude Journal
- Keep a journal close by so you can make a note of your daily blessings.
- Writing down your gratitude helps you be mindful and aware of Godās provision.
Share Your Gratitude
- Talk to a good friend about your gratitude, or blast it on social media!
- Sharing gratitude not only spreads the joy ā it also cultivates appreciation.
Celebrate Milestones and Everyday Moments of Joy
- Be thankful for both significant achievements and small victories.
- Celebrating milestones ā no matter how small ā creates a positive and grateful mindset.
Living gratefully is not just about saying āthank youāā¦ Itās about adopting a perspective of appreciation that overflows into every aspect of your life and allows you to develop a deeper connection with God.
These practical steps will not only guide you to have a deep relationship with Godā¦
But as you make them a part of your daily routine ā youāll also have a deeper appreciation and understanding of God.
There you have it, my beautiful friend, 5 ways to deepen your relationship with Godā¦
Hereās what you can do to get started right away:
- Download the free checklist.
- Choose one of the five practices discussed and implement it TODAY!
- Jot down three things youāre thankful for each day.
Rememberā¦
Small steps can lead to a significant transformation in your wellness and body image goals.
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My prayer for you is that my decades of experience of ā an all-consuming battle with the scale ā self-worth struggles ā and how God has radically worked on my heart will bless and inspire you!
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Thank you for joining me on this journey. You are loved, precious, and wonderfully made.