From Body Shame to Body Acceptance
This post is all about body acceptance. These are the terms and concepts that every Christian woman with body image issues needs to know about.
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What does body acceptance really mean for you as a Christian woman?
When you struggle with body image issues โ body acceptance is one of those things that seem soooo unattainable, right?
Thereโs been an uproar of movements for body acceptance, body neutrality, and body positivity.
And different people have different opinionsโฆ But youโre about to learn the Christian perspective on all of these body image-related trendy words ๐.
The goal of this blog post is to guide you to the throne of grace gentlyโฆ where your debilitating insecurities fade and your journey to freedom begins!
This post is all about body acceptance and vital insights that every Christian woman with body image issues needs to know.
A Christian Perspective on Body Acceptance
In a world of comparisons, unattainable societal standards, and diet cultureโs harsh expectationsโฆ
Body acceptance, unfortunately, is not something that comes naturally โ even to believers! Accepting your body โas it isโ may seem like a distant dreamโฆ
Youโre subtly inundated with and fed liesโฆ
TV, social media, friends, and even family โ glorify the skinny and fit. They insinuate that your body is not good because it doesnโt look like โthe beauty ideal.โ
And if youโre anything like me โ not skinny or fit โ then you feel body shame.
Sadly, we replace body acceptance with body shamingโฆ
Why? Because thatโs what weโve been taught to do.
Soโฆ
What Exactly Does Body Acceptance Mean?
What does body acceptance truly mean, and how can you build it within yourself?
(weโll get to the โhowโ part further downโฆ ๐)
Body acceptance definition
Body acceptance is a concept that encourages you to embrace and accept your body as it is โ without judgment or criticism.
It involves recognizing and appreciating the uniqueness and beauty of your bodyโฆ
Regardless of ridiculous societal standards or diet cultureโs harsh expectations.
Body acceptance emphasizes self-compassion, grace, kindness, and love.
In other words, itโs about accepting your body, even if youโre not completely satisfied with it.
And hereโs why youโll want to consider praying about body acceptanceโฆ
What is the Goal of Body Acceptance?
The short answer is FREEDOM!
Accepting your body, even if youโre not completely satisfied with it, can help you become free from that negative body image trap.
And I know for a fact for some of us that freedom would be
- The ultimate gift
- A deep sigh of relief
- A blessing
- A breakthrough
- The confidence to excel in all aspects of lifeโฆ
You see, as a Christian woman, you know youโre a daughter of God, right?
You were created in His image โ for His honor and glory.
You were created to worshipโฆ
And part of worshipping is gratitude โ to be grateful for the gift of life and the physical vessel youโve been given.
Accepting your body is an act of worship AND love.
Now, Iโm not suggesting that you should excessively focus on your physical selfโฆ Thinking about your body โ good or bad โ can lead to body image idolatry.
Instead, the idea is to accept yourself โ allowing your spiritual transformation to flourish โ without the heavy burden of your body image.
The goal of body acceptance is to believe (not feel) that your body is good because God says so. Itโs to place Godโs truth over your opinion ๐.
Itโs not about praising (idolizing) your body or joining the body positivity movementโฆ
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Body Positivity
Iโm sure youโve heard all about the Body Positive Movementโฆ But if you havenโt, thatโs ok because youโre about to learn all about it ๐.
The term โbody positivityโ refers to a social movement in the mid-1960sโฆ
But maybe youโre more familiar with it as it became an oh-so-popular Instagram hashtagโฆ
Body positivity encourages you to love and celebrate your body โ no matter what it looks like or what it can do.
And yes, youโre meant to be confident, bold, and beautifulโฆ
Because you are beautifully unique. A one-of-a-kind Masterโs piece.
I know loving your body might seem even more unattainable than body acceptanceโฆ
Honestly, the Bible doesnโt explicitly say to love yourselfโฆ
But you can absolutely admire Godโs incredible design โ every intricacy and nuance โ be in awe of who He is. Show respect and care for the vessel He entrusted you with.
So be encouraged โ embrace your uniqueness and stand confidently in your daughtership โ celebrating WHOSE you are.
Remember, itโs a heart matter, a posture of humility (not pride). Recognizing that you are made by Him and for Him.
God wants you to worship the gift giver, not the gift. You see, my friend, your physical traits are His creation, so if thereโs any praise to be given โ all praise belongs to Him ๐.
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Body Acceptance vs. Body Positivity
So what is the difference between body acceptance and body positivity?
Body Acceptance
Encourages you to acknowledge the features you may not be completely satisfied with. And to embrace your body with love and gratitude, free from judgment and criticism, for spiritual transformation and ultimate freedom.
- Aligns with your Christian faith.
Body Positivity
Encourages you to love your body no matter what it looks like or what it does. Fosters a sense of self-worth and praise.
- If youโre not careful, your body can become your idol. You may easily become prideful and place all of the focus and praise on youโฆ
Maybe youโre not at the โaccepting, embracing, liking, or lovingโ stageโฆ And thatโs perfectly ok!
Your journey is as unique as you are ๐
For now, ask God to help you believe you are good (as He says you are) and to feel neutral toward your bodyโs appearanceโฆ
Body Neutrality
Have you heard of body neutrality? Itโs a pretty new term and honestly, I kinda like it!
And hereโs whyโฆ
If you struggle with a negative body image, body neutrality is one baby step toward accepting your body.
You could say itโs neither a positive nor a negative thought toward your body.
Body neutrality encourages you to focus on how your body serves you โ not on how it looks ๐.
So thatโs what you want to work on first โ body neutrality. Practice gratitude for what your body allows you to do for the Kingdom.
And if youโre comfortable here at body neutrality land โ thatโs fantastic โ praise God!
But if the Holy Spirit is nudging you (convicting you) to keep working through some deeper issues, here are a few practical steps to get you to the next step โ body acceptanceโฆ
5 Steps You Can Start Today to Help You Build Body Acceptance
First and foremost: BELIEVE you are who God says you are! Because thereโs nothing you can do to make yourself better or worse before God. He sees you through the precious blood of Jesus. YOU ARE GOOD.
So go to the throne of grace and ask God to help you see yourself how He sees you.
How Do You Build Body Acceptance: 5 Practical Steps
1. Practice Self-Compassion
Be kind to yourself and treat yourself with the same grace and love you would offer to a dear friend. When negative thoughts about your body arise, replace them with affirming and compassionate words.
2. Believeโฆ
Start each day believing that your value is your identity as a daughter of the most wonderful and amazing and powerful Father! Remind yourself that you are fearfully and wonderfully made, a unique masterpiece created by God.
3. Surround Yourself with Supportive Community
Seek out spiritually mature women. Engage in supportive conversations, attend church events or gatherings that promote body acceptance, and build a community that uplifts and encourages each other.
4. Purge Harmful Media
Be mindful of the media you consume, and avoid exposure to content that perpetuates unrealistic beauty standards or promotes body shaming. Even โbody-positiveโ ones.
5. Focus on Health and Well-Being
Shift the focus from appearance to overall health and well-being. Engage in physical activities that bring you joy. Nourish your body with yummy God-given foods. And practice self-care.
Remember that the purpose of your body is not for physical appearance (a.k.a. vanity) but for serving God and fulfilling your purpose in His kingdom.
How To Practice Body Acceptance
By incorporating these practical steps into your daily life, you can gradually build body acceptance.
Step 1: Embrace Your Beautiful Distinctions
Recognize and celebrate the non-physical โ unique qualities that make you who you are. Understand that your body is a beautiful creation, made in Godโs image, and be grateful for His love and grace.
Step 2: Free Yourself from Body Shaming
Let go of negative thoughts, guilt, and body shaming. Embrace self-acceptance and self-love, free from the trap of vanity or excessive focus on physical appearance.
Step 3: Value Body Positivity and Body Neutrality
Maintain a Christ-centered appreciation of your body. Avoid excessive focus on the physical self or neglect of spiritual growth.
Many times this verse is used out of contextโฆ and may lead to
- Rule-based diets
- Restrictions
- Punishment
- Excessiveness
Steward your body well โ regardless of how you feel about it.
Step 4: Seek Spiritual Transformation
Understand that body acceptance is part of a larger journey toward spiritual transformation. Address any feelings of inadequacy related to your appearance and allow Godโs love and grace to set you free.
You can feel a certain way about your body but it doesnโt mean that itโs true. God says YOU ARE GOOD! As God to renew your mindโฆ
Step 5: Stand in Awe of Godโs Creation
Approach God with admiration and gratitude for His lavish and endless love. Recognize that body acceptance comes from embracing His love and not from anything you are or can do.
Remember, body acceptance is a journey of self-discovery and freedom, guided by Godโs love and grace. Embrace your unique beauty and let go of judgment โ knowing that you are fearfully and wonderfully made!
My dear friend, meditate on these verses and let Godโs Word guide your journey of body acceptance and neutrality. You are valued in His eyes โ loved just as you are.
Embrace your uniqueness and His endless love for you ๐.
My prayer for you is that my decades of experience of โ an all-consuming battle with the scale โ self-esteem struggles โ and how God has radically worked on my heart will bless and inspire you!
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